Yeah. Easier to take a hit, kind of worrying if that's what they WANT to do and think its good, and also you kind of should deal with the emotions of it?

Like when Shadow was upset at me before, he felt bad losing his temper and manhandling me. So I know if he DID hit me, its 'cause of his temper, and he doesn't want that to be the thing that controls him. But the conversation we had WAS important for him.