I imagine it has changed over time, but I couldn't say for certain. But likewise. I have no intention of being disrespectful to someone who has proven to be thoughtful of others.

I'll leave it to you to consider how you'd like to proceed, however, and if you want to consider something in a more official capacity I'd be more than willing to help in that regard.

And for what it's worth, I don't see how forcing anyone into anything garners trust or respect. { he's referring to what she said before, about having a choice.

what is left unsaid is that only by someone willingly making that choice is loyalty actually shown. taking power by use of fear doesn't instil loyalty. but friendship, thoughtfulness, care and other things can do. }