If it would fuck him up that badly, maybe it's better to just let it be.
You could try explicitly asking him "do you want to go on a date to do x" if that's easier but otherwise I guess you're right. You just have to live with it being how it is, unless you're really unhappy. Then find a way.
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You could try explicitly asking him "do you want to go on a date to do x" if that's easier but otherwise I guess you're right. You just have to live with it being how it is, unless you're really unhappy. Then find a way.