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inaba "100% dere" himeko ( 稲葉 姫子 ) ([personal profile] dereban) wrote in [community profile] ellipsanet2024-05-28 08:18 pm

text ❥ un: anonymous

I wasn't sure if I wanted to write this post or not, but at the end of the day, I wound up posting anonymously.

So, long story short: I want a girlfriend.

I keep winding up with male partners that I want to have a female partner for once in my life but then I realize my issue here: I don't have any female friends in this world.

TL;DR? Please send help and advice.
shuidegurou: Source: Solo Max Level Newbie (Grit (1))

[personal profile] shuidegurou 2024-06-06 05:12 pm (UTC)(link)
You don't need to apologize. It's a touchy topic for most people.

I wasn't trying to lecture you, though. It's just that in the first part of your post you seemed a little frustrated and like maybe you just needed a bit of a push. I wanted to share my perspective from past experience, not talk down to you. I'm sorry if I pushed too hard or crossed a line. It wasn't intentional. Text probably wasn't the best choice for conveying tone for that on my part, either.

Like I said, you should do what makes you feel both safe and comfortable. I don't think I can offer anything beyond this, though, not without knowing you personally. I hope you find what you're looking for, though.
shuidegurou: Source: Solo Max Level Newbie (Tired (1))

[personal profile] shuidegurou 2024-06-06 08:55 pm (UTC)(link)
[During that time Mari wonders if she'd said something wrong again, but there's nothing for it now that the text is sent. She's not sure what to expect when a notification finally comes.]

I see. Well, there's no hard feelings on my part for whatever that's worth. Just in case it came over that way (I hope not!). [Since this is anon and all, and they DON'T know each other personally.] Yeah, that's just the trade off, but if it helps then it helps.

If any of our exchange was of any help in some way then I'm glad. I'm sorry I couldn't be of more assistance, but you're welcome.
Edited 2024-06-06 20:55 (UTC)