inaba "100% dere" himeko ( 稲葉 姫子 ) (
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I wasn't sure if I wanted to write this post or not, but at the end of the day, I wound up posting anonymously.
So, long story short: I want a girlfriend.
I keep winding up with male partners that I want to have a female partner for once in my life but then I realize my issue here: I don't have any female friends in this world.
TL;DR? Please send help and advice.
So, long story short: I want a girlfriend.
I keep winding up with male partners that I want to have a female partner for once in my life but then I realize my issue here: I don't have any female friends in this world.
TL;DR? Please send help and advice.
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I wasn't trying to lecture you, though. It's just that in the first part of your post you seemed a little frustrated and like maybe you just needed a bit of a push. I wanted to share my perspective from past experience, not talk down to you. I'm sorry if I pushed too hard or crossed a line. It wasn't intentional. Text probably wasn't the best choice for conveying tone for that on my part, either.
Like I said, you should do what makes you feel both safe and comfortable. I don't think I can offer anything beyond this, though, not without knowing you personally. I hope you find what you're looking for, though.
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It takes Inaba a nice, long, hard couple of minutes before she formulates a response. ]
Looks like there's an impasse, then.
Well, I knew that there was going to be a limit to things when I posted anonymously like this. That's fine. Thank you, regardless.
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I see. Well, there's no hard feelings on my part for whatever that's worth. Just in case it came over that way (I hope not!). [Since this is anon and all, and they DON'T know each other personally.] Yeah, that's just the trade off, but if it helps then it helps.
If any of our exchange was of any help in some way then I'm glad. I'm sorry I couldn't be of more assistance, but you're welcome.