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[dereban]

I wasn't sure if I wanted to write this post or not, but at the end of the day, I wound up posting anonymously.

So, long story short: I want a girlfriend.

I keep winding up with male partners that I want to have a female partner for once in my life but then I realize my issue here: I don't have any female friends in this world.

TL;DR? Please send help and advice.

Comments

[roundandaround]

Wait, but then what's the difference? Aren't they both just trying to approach people?

[dereban]

Yes, but the former is usually with a purposeful, meaningful intent. You're not doing it randomly or out of the blue. You're paying close enough attention to the other person to at least show some sense of courtesy.

There's a difference between being thoughtful about approaching someone vs doing it because you're making assumptions about their state of affairs.