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kurokawa akane ★ 黒川 あかね ([personal profile] repliacting) wrote in [community profile] ellipsanet2023-05-30 02:18 am

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[ This post is rather short and curt, asking a single question with no preamble: ]

How would you stop someone who is living their life solely for the sake of revenge?
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[personal profile] moonstriking 2023-05-30 09:58 am (UTC)(link)
[Judith's response is straight to the point. ]

You can't stop anyone who doesn't want to be stopped.

[My, my. She didn't realise these were the kinds of messages people sent out on this system]
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[personal profile] moonstriking 2023-05-30 10:09 am (UTC)(link)
Do you intend to make them bow to your will by force then?
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[personal profile] syckophant 2023-05-30 01:53 pm (UTC)(link)
Hmmm

An interesting question! There are plenty of ways, of course. What solutions have you tried?
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[personal profile] wild_romance 2023-05-30 03:14 pm (UTC)(link)
Sometimes you can't. But if you're going to try, you may have to risk your life on that bet.
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[personal profile] wild_romance 2023-05-30 04:24 pm (UTC)(link)
That's your choice to make, and maybe they'll see that you believe in them more than they need to believe in revenge.

Maybe they won't. That's their choice to make.
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[personal profile] syckophant 2023-05-30 04:46 pm (UTC)(link)
Have you tried helping them satisfy that revenge? Getting rid of the object yourself can just end up with someone with directionless anger that may instead latch on to you.

I guess you could always try finding something else for them to live for too, but it's impossible to force.

Well.

Not impossible, but usually unethical~☆
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[personal profile] egomitochdavar 2023-05-30 04:53 pm (UTC)(link)
If you truly wish to know my own methods, I will provide them.
But perhaps it would be easier to first consider this:

What is it you truly want to stop?
Revenge, single-mindedness, or the being themselves?
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[personal profile] syckophant 2023-05-30 05:02 pm (UTC)(link)
Take it from an operative of Wrath, that kind of thing might just move the revenge from the previous person into you, is what I mean. If someone stole my prey, you can bet they'd be next.

Personally, I think revenge is a wonderful thing to live for. Living to see someone else's downfall and just throwing yourself into that is exhilarating! One can certainly be happy while consumed with that feeling!


[Or maybe Eichi is a weirdo! Or maybe he's a demon that works for the sin of Wrath(on paper)! Maybe he's got a lot of unresolved bitterness that pairs well with sadism!]

Anyway, you just need to learn some power to alter minds or memories and give them a good hard reset. I'm sure there's something like that here!
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[personal profile] kingside 2023-05-30 05:11 pm (UTC)(link)
Ideally, by helping them to find a better reason to live.
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[personal profile] wild_romance 2023-05-30 05:18 pm (UTC)(link)
Hope is precious. But sometimes people get so locked into their hurt that they can't see it anymore. Doesn't mean it's not worth trying though.
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[personal profile] syckophant 2023-05-30 05:29 pm (UTC)(link)
Death comes for us all, someday~☆

Mmh! Only one way to find out, is there? What you've done so far hasn't worked, and the only other idea is "hope they decide they want to change", or make some kind of deal with a devil.

Or perhaps you should let them do as they please. It is their life to use or lose as they wish, and in the end it's all you really take with you when you go. Perhaps this revenge is more precious to them than happiness, more precious than the people who care for them who wish for their health.
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[personal profile] egomitochdavar 2023-05-30 05:35 pm (UTC)(link)
I see. How admirable.

[ of akane, or of aqua? she doesn't specify further. ]

First, you have asked for my own thoughts, and given me your own truth. It would be childish of me to not speak openly as well.

As a first step, I would decide whether or not to seize their goal for myself. A man cannot take revenge if you pry his ideals from his grasp, and a life is easily enough taken. Left without a cause, the vagrant might take up a worthwhile cause.

Next, I would decide whether a simple display of force would be sufficient to stop him. Crushing a spirit is almost as simple as snuffing a life, and even failing that, bone is easily pushed to its breaking point. If breaking him would be enough, then it would assuredly be the next simplest answer.

And finally, if neither were sufficient, I would take his life myself. This would be the simplest option, after all, and yet it would bring little joy compared to my other options.


But I suspect these options are not ones you would care to hear, much less to employ. You seek a cure for the malady, not an end to its symptoms, wouldn't you agree?
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[personal profile] fauxglove 2023-05-30 08:46 pm (UTC)(link)
I wouldn't. Let them make their mistakes.
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[personal profile] uncommonsense 2023-05-30 10:58 pm (UTC)(link)
have you tried asking them "and then what"?
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[personal profile] uncommonsense 2023-05-30 11:07 pm (UTC)(link)
oh.

hmmmmm... that's really tough... are you two close?

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