abnormalizes: negative (it's such a freaky scene)
Evangeline ([personal profile] abnormalizes) wrote in [community profile] ellipsanet2023-07-24 09:24 pm

un: abnormalitylover, voice

How do I get my friends to not be upset when I talk about life at home?

It's not like they can do anything about it or like bad things are happening here now, so I mostly just feel bad for making them feel bad and making the conversation really awkward.

Is this a normal part of having friends? It sucks and I would like to opt out, please.
kingside: (beautiful emperor)

[personal profile] kingside 2023-08-01 11:45 pm (UTC)(link)
[Gods that is far too close to home.]

I appreciate it.
kingside: (lying smiles)

[personal profile] kingside 2023-08-06 11:05 pm (UTC)(link)
I wouldn't go so far. Speaking to you is oddly refreshing.
kingside: (DRAMATIC EXPLANATION)

[personal profile] kingside 2023-08-07 12:00 am (UTC)(link)
Your perspective is drastically different from most people's, so yes, I'd say "refreshing" is appropriate. Also bizarre and unsettling, but not in a bad way most of the time.
kingside: (you're doing it wrong)

[personal profile] kingside 2023-08-07 12:04 am (UTC)(link)
[The strangest things fluster her, really, which is sort of par for the course, so. Sure, Evangeline.]

I can call you "weird" if that would be easier to stomach.
kingside: (cold nobility)

[personal profile] kingside 2023-08-07 12:15 am (UTC)(link)
[This response is somewhat more bewildering, but okay.]

I'll remember it.
kingside: (is that what you meant?)

[personal profile] kingside 2023-08-07 12:30 am (UTC)(link)
You're welcome, and I appreciate. Should I encounter one who's deserving, you'll be the first to know.
kingside: (a gentle world)

ye

[personal profile] kingside 2023-08-07 03:58 am (UTC)(link)
The same to you, Evangeline, should you need someone to talk to.