CLEAR THE AIR FOR NEW YEAR

[seasonsmods]

Hello, everyone~! ⭐

I'm Starlight ✨, here with a public forum post to end the new year with! It's called a confession booth!

Basically, this is your chance to confess something you have been holding back to start the new year off with a clean(er) record!

Oh, and every comment will be automatically anon when posted, so no need to play with settings or anything.

And of course, have a wonderful new years, everyone 💫 I hope to see you more come next year.


Oooh and one more thing. Please don't make any lewd comments on here, okay? If you need to get flirty with your anon buddies, you can make your own post. Much love~ 💕




OOC: This is a mini-minun fun event to end the new years with! Starlight herself won't make any comments or reply to anything. This comment is a free for all, threadjacking is probably a given, please mark if you'd rather avoid getting threadjacked!

Please also keep everything SFW, as this post won't be locked. You can make a secondary post of anon flirting and sexting if that's something you wanna do! A NSFW version has been posted.

Of course any potential triggering confessions should be warned about in the header.

Anon isn't OOCly on, but ICly it's always on. You'd have to hack the settings to be posting with your username.

Comments

[dreamsofwings]

Just tell him and get it over with anyway.
Or get a friend to tell him. If that's the relationship you want, you can't just keep it inside.

[ This is HILARIOUS since Eren and Reiner have not admitted out loud that they're dating. ]

[sheezit]

[ you know what, just give him some hints and Shez is gonna start match-making, he'd clearly fare a lot better at helping other people out when he can't help himself!! ]

get a friend to tell him? what are you, eleven?

[ BURN. ]

listen, i really can't say much more or i'll out myself here, but suffice to say *i* would be the best shot of a friend telling him anything.

[dreamsofwings]

I'm not the one scared to tell my boyfriend we're dating.

[ REALLY, EREN? ]

But just tell him. What's the worst that can happen?

[sheezit]

u sure? there's been at least two other guys before you in my same shoes, y'know.

[ DEFENSIVE MUCH, EREN?? ]

anyway, the guy practically had a meltdown the first time he [ HMMMM ] got carried away. he's THAT weird, okay? trust me!

[dreamsofwings]

I saw that. Why? Is this a fear of labels or just everyone being clueless?

[ His lack of self-awareness is astounding. ]

What do you think he'd do though? Freak out how?

You could also just continue being whatever you are without saying you're dating.

[sheezit]

[ Eren. Eren, baby. Sweet babygirl. ]

who knows. maybe with all the intimacy stuff we have going on here, people are getting their wires crossed.

and to be honest, yeah, i'm pretty scared he'll freak out beyond fixing. the guy has this hugely intimidating presence on the outside, but on the inside he's like this squishy lil marshmallow and if you press too hard, he'll pop off. it's not like i need a label or anything, but it's hard to deal with someone who's that out of tune with his own feelings...

[dreamsofwings]

You care about him enough to want him to know right? Maybe there's a way to tell him that won't freak him out.

Maybe ask him instead. Something like do you want to date me? or whatever.

[sheezit]

i've sort of asked him what he thinks of the time we spend together, and while everything he says does sound as though he likes me, he can never make the connection on his own. doesn't help that he hasn't had many friends before so his frame of reference is pretty limited.

idk. i want him to know but i also have to wonder if that isn't just me being selfish, if knowing could mean shaking him up pretty bad.

[dreamsofwings]

If it would fuck him up that badly, maybe it's better to just let it be.

You could try explicitly asking him "do you want to go on a date to do x" if that's easier but otherwise I guess you're right. You just have to live with it being how it is, unless you're really unhappy. Then find a way.

[sheezit]

no, i'm definitely not unhappy, quite the contrary. i'll keep your advice in mind since i do wish we can make things clearer between us at some point, but for now, i really like what we have.

besides, if one good thing came out of sharing this is that i now i know for sure i'm clearly not the only one struggling here. if push comes to shove, we may as well start a secret club or something!

[dreamsofwings]

Yeah, at least you could talk through it and feel less alone.

[sheezit]

sure did. still think i should start a club or something though.
and you'd be welcome to join anytime. :)

[ Because yeah, this guy DEFINITELY got suspiciously defensive for a reason! ]